BEN ITTY

Condolence Book for

BEN ITTY

Crosshaven, Cork

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I am so sorry for your loss Shivaun, Rhea and Akeela. Ben was always such a kind and gentle man whenever we met him at school. The girls spoke of him with such love. Sending love and strength to you all xx
— Sarah de Búrca Scoil Bhríde
Shivaun and family, my deepest sympathies to you on the passing of Ben. Thinking of you all at this time. Ar dheis Dé go raibh a anam dílis.
— Sarah Condon KCS and Crosshaven
Our deepest sympathies to Shivaun, Rhea, Akeela, and the wider Lucey and Itty families on the passing of Ben. We are thinking of you all at this very sad time. We were privileged to have known Ben, may he rest in peace.
— Mary & Seamus, UCC
Shivaun - it is with deep regret that we heard the sad news of your husband's passing. Please accept our sincere sympathy with you and the family. May he rest in peace.
— Una Dwyer and family
Deepest condolences
Rest in Peace
— Dervilla & family Kinsale
Dear Shivaun Rhea and Akeela
I’m still in shock hearing the sad news. I spoke to him in Dec. He was a special person in our family always visited us when ever he passed by in Dubai& Toronto. Our condolences.and prayers
Emily & Rajan
— Emily and Rajan Canada
We are deeply saddened by the loss of our dear Uncle Ben. However, our thoughts are filled with great memories of him. From the moment we set foot into the world, Uncle Ben was by our side. Although his adventurous spirit led him to travel the world, we always felt his love and support. There simply was never a time when we could not feel his presence in our lives. No matter the occasion, Uncle Ben was the first to offer words of encouragement, and always made sure we knew how proud of us he was. From birthdays to baptisms, confirmations to graduations, if he was not physically there, he was only a phone call away. For every holiday, birthday, anniversary, or celebration, he would be the first to wish us. Family meant everything to him, and looking back, Uncle Ben was our glue. Distance never stopped him from being our cool Uncle Ben. We cannot thank him enough for constantly working towards our tight-knit relationship as a family.

Aunt Shivaun, Rhea, and Akeela, this is a hard loss you are facing. Please remember that Uncle Ben is always with you. We love you so much and will continue to support you in everything that you do.

To Uncle Ben who we all adore, thank you for bringing so much happiness into our lives and helping to raise us. We promise to remain as a unit and be there for one another. You have inspired us in many ways. Even though we can still feel your presence, we miss you terribly.
— Victor, Alisha, Lillian, Nathaniel, Alexandra, & Nikhil Itty
Hi Shivaun Rhea and Akeela
My deepest sympathies.
I am Tita just recently established relationships with Benjy. We all grew up together in Calcutta. I am his Moms brother’s daughter After they moved to B’ore we lost contact. So sorry to hear about Benjy. No words can be comforting now during this time of grief . We are all thinking of you and praying for you.
Bryan and Tita
— Elizabeth Thomas
Benji was a year senior to me in Cottons and I got to know all the Itty brothers in school and at St. Mark’s Cathedral. I have wonderful memories of him in our youth group and in the many outreach events we participated in.
May the embrace of the Chief Shepherd offer you peace and hope at this time of loss and grief.
— Kiran Sebastian
Dear Shivaun, Rhea and Akeela. ,we were so shocked and saddened to hear of Ben’s unexpected passing. Ben was a truly special person - So warm, kind and interesting and clearly devoted to you all. Our hearts go out to you and the wider family at this terribly sad time. Ar dheis Dé a anam dílis.
— Ciara & Tadhg Concannon
Deepest sympathy to Shivaun, Rhea and Akeela. I was so sorry to learn of Ben's untimely passing. He was such a lovely 'Bois Soleil' neighbour. Always so kind and willing to give up his time for a chat and a catch up. He exuded great calmness and confidence. Your cherished memories of Ben will hopefully bring a little comfort during the difficult times ahead. May he rest in peace.
— Suzanne McMahon
My deepest condolences to Shivaun, Rhea and Akeela and wishing you strength during this very difficult time. I had the great pleasure of working with Ben. He was an absolute gentleman, so calm, warm and wise. May he rest in peace.
— Aisling Gorman
Our sincere condolences Rhea, and to all your family, on the loss of your father. May he rest in peace.
— Anne Barry & Mary Farmer
To Shivaun, Rhea and Akeela, we were so very saddened to hear of Ben’s passing. He was such a lovely man and I enjoyed meeting him over the years at the school and in the village. I will always remember his warm smile and calm ways. A true gentleman and a wonderful Dad. Deepest sympathy to you all and wishing you strength at this terribly difficult time. May Ben rest in peace.
— Una, Fintan, Ella and Abbie Ronan
Shivaun, I am truly sorry to hear the incredibly sad news about Ben!

My deepest Sympathy to you and your family on his loss.

Ben, Rest In Peace.
— Fred McDonogh Glenbeigh, Co Kerry
I am very very sorry to all of the family for your very sad loss

I didn’t know Ben but I used to see him at the school and think he was a wonderful dad

May he rest in peace
— Antoinette crosshaven
Dear Shivaun, Rhea, and Akeela,
Ben’s sudden death was a big shock and words may not suffice to express the heartfelt sorrow we feel for the passing of your beloved husband and dad. Although we have not seen each other for a while, the memory of Ben brings a big smile to our faces. We will never forget his beautiful smile and how we felt in his presence.
Today, we pray along with you and the whole family that God shall give rest to his soul in a place of light and green pasture where there is no pain, no sorrow, but life everlasting.
Wishing you, comfort for the coming days, and may treasured memories of Ben you hold in your hearts be with you forever.
May God hold you and your family at all times, especially in these difficult times. May Ben’s memory be eternal.
Until we meet Ben again!
With love,
Stavros, Maria, and Heraklis Papagermanos (New York)
— Papagermanos Family - NY
Deepest Sympathy to Shivaun and family , extended families, especially Sheila & Denis.
May Ben Rest in Pesce.
— Fergus & Eucharia Hannon
Deepest condolences to Shivaun, Rhea & Akeela on the loss of your treasured Ben, husband, dad, soulmate and friend.

Ben was a true gentlemen who was loved by everyone and his love for you shone through.

We were all the better for having met Ben.

Have so many happy memories of Ben..Amsterdam, "Biriyani with Ben", Caitriona's 40th, coffees, good conversation.

He will sadly missed and you're in our thoughts and prayers at this sad time.
— Fergal & Niamh
Sorry for your loss. Rhea and there family. Condolences to the family.
— Niamh
Our deepest sympathy on the sad loss of Ben to Shivaun and family especially Denis and Sheila.
May he rest in peace.
— Noreen & Tom Philpott
My sincere condolences to Shivaun, Rhea, Akeela and family on the passing of a dear husband and father Ben
May he rest in peace
— Sarah
Sincere Condolences to Shivaun , Rhea, Akeela and the family circle on Ben’s passing. Ben was warm and generous of mind and spirit. A wise and charming gentleman.
— Brian Duffy
Dear Shivaun. I'm deeply saddened to hear of Ben's passing. He was great guy and a great boss. He calmed troubled waters, brought wisdom and a smile. He will be greatly missed by everyone.
— Mark Davies
Shivaun and family, my deepest condolences. I worked with Ben for 10 wonderful years at Diageo. I have learned so much from him. Lots of fond memories, at Diageo, in Amsterdam. Great dinner conversations and of course: the fabulous home-made curries! Thinking of you in these difficult times. Love, Sabine
— Sabine van der Velden
Sincere condolences to all the family. Thinking of you all at this sad time.
— Dee, Orso Cork
Please accept our deepest condolences. We are deeply saddened by his passing. He was not simply Ivan's friend. He was part of our family. Niki and Meri treasure the fondest memories they have of him. Rest in peace our dearest Benjy. You will always be a part of us and greatly missed.
— Desiree & Ivan Benn
My deepest condolences to Shivaun, Rhea and Akeela at this extremely difficult time. May you find strength in each other and comfort in your happy memories.
— Simone Lynch, Colaiste Muire
Sincere condolences to Shivaun, Rhea and Akeela on the sad passing of Ben. May he rest in peace.
— Eóin, Lorraine, Caoimhe & Ríain Ó Béara, Brightwater
Sincere sympathy to Shivaun, Rhea, Akeela and the extended Itty family especially Sheila and Denis Lucy.
— Vincent and Phil Allen
My deepest sympathy to Shivaun, Rhea Akeela and the Lucey and Itty families on the sad passing of Ben. May he rest in peace
— Theresa Sheehan
Sincere condolences to Shivaun, Akeela and Rhea on the passing of Ben. Ben was a wonderful person to be around always very encouraging, positive and great fun. His contribution and engagement across numerous programmes in the University will be missed greatly. Rest in Peace Ben.
— Ronan O' Farrell UCC
My sincere sympathies to
Shivaun and all her family. May he Rest in Peace.
— Louise O'Mullane
To Shivaun, Rhea, Akrela and all the Lucey family, we were so very shocked and saddened to hear of Ben’s passing. I am so glad we got to spend a precious morning on the beach in Royan with him in June. He was his usual serene, charming, elegant and gentlemanly self. Always such easy and interesting company and so hospitable and generous. Our children’s last memory of him
is of him handing them money to go treat themselves to an extra large ice cream. We will all miss you terribly Ben. Shivaun, Rhea and Akeela we are all here for you at this terribly sad time x
— Diane, Simon, Ruby, Charlie, Milo and Juno Geelon
Shivaun, Rhea, Akeela and all your family, sending my deepest condolences on such sad news. Ben was a very special person- gentle, callm, intelligent and a brilliant colleague to have in the team. I have very fond memories of shared times at Diageo. May he rest in peace.
— Christene McCauley
Ben was a special man. I will remember him with gratitude and deep affection, for his wise mind, generous heart and ready smile . Wishing strength and love to Shivaun, Akeela, Rhea and all Ben’s family, whom he loved so much.
— Alison Falconer
our deepest condolences to Shivaun, Rhea & Akeela on your loss - he was a gentleman and will be missed. May he rest in peace
— Finian Dullea & Crona Hughes
So sorry to learn of Ben's passing. I remember him fondly from days at Diageo - he was a warm, friendly, lovely man who I am sure will be missed terribly by all who knew him. My deepest condolences to all his family.
— Maxine Napal
My sincere condolences to Shivaun and the family at this hard time! Ar dheis Dé go raibh a anam.
— Pádraic O hÓgáin Gaelcholaiste Mhuire AG
Our sincere sympathy to Shivaaun Rhea Akeela Denis and Sheila 0n the death of Ben. may Ben Rest In Peace
— john Maureen Crowley and family Kilnagnady Innishannon
Deepest sympathy to Shivaun, Akeela and Rhea on the sad passing of Ben. May he rest in peace.
— Juliet Murphy
Sincere condolences to Shivaun, Akeela and Rhea on the passing of Ben. May he rest in peace.
— Anne Keating, Ashton
Shivaun, a chara, comhbhrón ó chroí leat agus do chlann go léir. Ar dheis Dé go raibh a anam dílis. Ag smaoineamh oraibh ar fad.
— Marianne Ní Thuama Gaelcholáiste Charraig Uí Leighin
Shivaun, Rhea and Akeela we are so very sorry for your loss and wish you much strength at this difficult time. May Ben's kind and gentle soul rest in peace. It was a privilege to have met him. In deepest sympathy
— Sylvana Murphy and family
Sincere condolences to shivaun,and family on the sad passing of Ben,he was a pure gentleman and will be sadly missed, may he rest in peace
— David and Tracey Fleming
Deepest condolences to Shivaun and family on Ben’s passing. Terribly sad news and he will be missed by his many past and present friends and colleagues from Diageo. May he Rest In Peace.
— Michael Dargan
Sincere condolences Shivaun, Rhea and Akeela for your loss of Ben. May he rest in peace.
— Gillian Moore Mellotte & Family Emly Co Tipperary
Deepest sympathies to Shivaun, Rhea Akeela the Lucey and Itty families during this difficult time. May Ben rest in peace
— Maureen Moore Bourke & Joseph Bourke Kilross Tipperary
Dear Shivaun, Rhea and Akeela, our heart sincerely goes out to you. We were shocked and deeply sad to hear about your loss. Ben was such loving husband and father. Please accept our condolences.
— Eva Murphyova and Niall Murphy
My sincere condolences to Ben’s family. He was a wonderful person to work with and one always felt good in his company. We will miss you, Ben. Rest in peace.
— Lana Repar, UCC
Ben was such a wonderful work colleague, always kind, always had time, always so wise. My deepest condolences to you all.
— Anita Robinson, Diageo
Shivaun, a chara, sincerest sympathy to you and your loved ones at this incredibly difficult time. May Ben rest in peace
— Meghan ní Mhaoldomhnaigh
Sincere condolences to Shivaun and family. Thinking of you all at this time.
— William Ormond
Sincere condolences to Shivaun, Rhea, Akeela and family. Thinking of you all at this very sad and difficult time. May Ben rest in peace.
— David, Imelda, Alice & Sebastian Long - Myrtleville
Thinking of you all at this saddest of times. Ben was such a lovely gentle man.
— Julie & Keith Jones & Family
Sending my sincere condolences Shivaun, Rhea and Akeela. It was such a pleasure to work with Ben, we all benefitted from his incredible wisdom, kindness and inspiration. A true gent. He had a huge impact in the work he did and on all whom he worked with, may he rest in peace
— Julie Bramham, Johnnie Walker GBT
Our deepest sympathy to Shivaun, Rhea, Akeela & the Itty and Lucey families.
Sending healing prayers and comforting hugs.
As the days continue to pass, we hope you find comfort and support in the people that surround you and the wonderful memories you carry in your mind and your heart.
— Raman family
Akeela, we are so sorry to hear about the passing of your Dad I used to meet your Dad at the Garryduff Hockey Training and he was always so pleasant to talk to. Thinking of you at this sad time
— Paula and Emily Courtney
Our deepest condolences to you all on your loss of Ben . May Ben’s soul rest in peace.
— Anish and Julie Ballincollig
Siobhan I would like to express my deepest sympathy and my sincerest condolences (and those of all my colleagues on the PME programme the School of Education, UCC) to you and your family on the very sad and untimely passing of Ben RIP. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad and challenging time. I wish you every strength and courage as you try to process your enormous loss.
— Brian Murphy, School of Education, UCC
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