<p>Deciding what to do with a loved one’s ashes is deeply personal, and there’s no need to rush. Some families make a decision straight away, while others wait for an anniversary, a moment of clarity, or simply the headspace to reflect. There’s no one-size-fits-all approach, but here are seven meaningful ideas to consider.</p><h3>1. Keep Them Close at Home</h3><p>Many families choose to keep ashes in an urn somewhere personal—on the mantelpiece, a shelf, a windowsill, or tucked away quietly. Today’s urns can be beautifully discreet or a striking interior feature, with designs in wood, glass, ceramic, or stone. It’s not morbid; it’s often deeply comforting.</p><h3>2. Scatter Them Somewhere Meaningful</h3><p>From a favourite beach to the back garden, scattering ashes in a place your loved one cherished can be incredibly moving. It also creates a space you can revisit, knowing they are there. Just consider the practicalities: check permissions and decide whether you want to do it privately or with others.</p><h3>3. Share Them With Family</h3><p>Ashes can be shared between households, especially in blended or close-knit families. Keepsake urns or memorial jewellery allow multiple people to feel connected and included in the remembrance.</p><h3>4. Plant Them With a Tree or in a Garden</h3><p>Nature lovers might appreciate a living tribute. Biodegradable urns are available, or you can scatter ashes beneath a new tree or a favourite rose bush. It becomes a legacy you can visit for years to come.</p><h3>5. Create a Memorial Keepsake</h3><p>Ashes can be transformed into jewellery, glass art, vinyl records, or even paintings. Some keepsakes are beautiful and symbolic; others are more trend-led. Choose what feels meaningful to you—not just what’s fashionable.</p><h3>6. Place Them in a Columbarium or Grave</h3><p>Cemeteries often offer wall niches or smaller plots for ashes. Some families choose to add ashes to an existing grave. These options create a defined place to visit and reflect, which can be especially comforting for those who value tradition.</p><h3>7. Wait Until the Time Feels Right</h3><p>Many people keep ashes for months or even years—until a birthday, anniversary, or simply when it feels right. Grief has no expiry date. Take your time.</p><p><strong>Zoë’s Note</strong></p><p>Whatever you choose, make sure it feels right for you and your family. If you’re unsure, I’m always here to help talk it through.</p>

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