<p>In the aftermath of a death, life seems to unfairly continue without pause, especially on a farm. Having intentional time to come together to remember those we’ve lost is a vital part of grieving and healing. Whether it’s an informal conversation at the kitchen table or a more structured ceremony, Embrace FARM speaks to the importance of gathering.</p><h3>The Relentless Nature of Farm Life</h3><p>Among the farm families we support, a common sentiment is that there’s no option to stop and grieve. The farm business must continue: animals need feeding, families need care, and land needs managing. It’s a line of work that rarely accommodates grief, making it all the more important to create space to remember and mourn those we’ve lost.</p><h3>Community in Grief: A Deep Irish Tradition</h3><p>Ireland has always been a community-driven country—one where neighbours come together in times of grief, loss, and sadness. When Brian Rohan’s father, Liam, died suddenly while working on machinery, their family witnessed the power of community. Friends, neighbours, and loved ones showed up in the aftermath of Liam’s tragic death.</p><p>From this experience, Brian and Norma Rohan founded <a href="https://embracefarm.com/">Embrace FARM</a> to honour those seriously injured or lost within farm families. This led to the creation of Embrace FARM’s Annual Remembrance Service, held on the last Sunday of June each year in Abbeyleix, Co. Laois. The service invites all those affected by life-changing injuries or sudden deaths in the farming community to come together, support one another, and remember those they’ve lost.</p><h3>Gathering in Everyday Moments</h3><p>Gathering doesn’t always have to be a formal mass or ceremony. It can be showing up in smaller, meaningful ways—bringing a neighbour to the shops, meeting for a cup of tea, or going for a walk and chat. These moments may seem small, but they carry immense emotional value. Being remembered and having the space to share memories of a loved one can be deeply healing.</p><h3>A Unique Grief Within the Farming Community</h3><p>For farm families grieving the death of a loved one or someone in the wider agricultural community, the grief is specific—one that only others in the same world can fully understand. While everyone experiences grief at some point, the farming context adds layers that make communal support even more essential.</p><p>Grief is a personal journey, different for each individual. Yet, there is great emotional strength in coming together to remember those we’ve lost.</p><h3>Join Us in Remembrance</h3><p>If you are part of a farm family and would like your loved one’s name remembered at Embrace FARM’s Annual Remembrance Service, please email <a href="mailto:info@embracefarm.com">info@embracefarm.com</a> with their name, county, year of death, and a photo.</p><p>For more information, visit: <a href="https://embracefarm.com/remembrance-service/">www.embracefarm.com/remembrance-service</a></p><p> </p>

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Grief on the Farm: Why Coming Together Matters

<h3>A Tragedy That Sparked a Movement</h3><p>Embrace FARM was founded by Brian and Norma Rohan after Brian’s father, Liam, died tragically in a farm accident. While the organisation has since expanded to support families affected by serious injury or sudden death—including medical events, suicide, or off-farm accidents—supporting those impacted by farm accidents remains a core part of Embrace FARM’s mission to the agri-community.</p><h3>The Suddenness of Farm Accidents</h3><p>Everything can change in the blink of an eye, and farm accidents are a stark example of that. These tragedies occur too often across Ireland’s agricultural community, with many families relying on their local networks for support in the aftermath.</p><p>At Embrace FARM, we ask you to meet these families with empathy and understanding. This type of loss is unimaginable to those who haven’t experienced it firsthand.</p><h3>Living With Grief on the Farm</h3><p>After a farm accident, grief doesn’t fade, it grows around the loss. Many families continue to live and work on the same land where the tragedy occurred, surrounded by the machinery or livestock that may have been involved. Life is expected to go on, even as daily reminders of the loss remain.</p><p>Among the many families Embrace FARM has supported, one sentiment echoes across them all: </p><blockquote><p><i>“It feels like it happened yesterday,</i> </p></blockquote><p>No matter how much time has passed.</p><h3>Support for Families Directly Affected</h3><p>For families directly impacted by a farm accident, Embrace FARM offers both emotional and practical support. We’re here for you and your loved ones; ready to walk this journey with you, however and whenever you need us.</p><p>Treat yourself with kindness and patience. Grief is deeply personal and can look different for each person, even within the same family.</p><h3>How Communities Can Help</h3><p>If you’re a friend, neighbour, or part of the wider community supporting a bereaved farm family, it can be hard to know what to do. Small acts of kindness can make a big difference—cooking meals for the freezer, dropping off groceries, helping around the yard, or simply checking in for a chat.</p><p>Be mindful of the person’s energy and boundaries. Grief is different for everyone, so it’s important to ask what they need and respect their space.</p><h3>Reach Out for Support</h3><p>Embrace FARM provides practical and emotional support to anyone in a farm family affected by serious injury or sudden death—including farm accidents, medical events, suicide, or off-farm incidents like car accidents.</p><p>If you or someone you know could use support, please contact us: </p><p><strong>Call</strong>: 057-8510555</p><p><strong>Email:</strong> <a href="mailto:info@embracefarm.com">info@embracefarm.com</a></p><p><strong>Visit</strong>: <a href="https://embracefarm.com/">www.embracefarm.com</a></p><p> </p>

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Life After Loss: Coping with Grief Following a Farm Accident

<h3>Grief and Responsibility Collide</h3><p>After the unimaginable happens, a farm family is left to process their grief while facing the reality of running a farm business that cannot pause. Embrace FARM offers both practical and emotional support in the aftermath of serious injury or sudden death.</p><p>Referencing their own publication, <i>“What Happens to the Farm Now? A Practical Supports Booklet,”</i> Embrace FARM provides guidance on what steps to take next.</p><h3>A High-Risk Sector with Deep Impact</h3><p>The workplace fatality rate in agriculture is higher than in any other sector in Ireland [<a href="https://teagasc.ie/news--events/daily/farm-safety-addressing-risks-in-irish-agriculture/#:~:text=The%20fatality%20rate%20in%20agriculture%20is%20higher%20than,2023%2C%20with%2016%20of%20those%20from%20farming%20alone.">source].</a> This means that most people in the agricultural community either know a family affected by serious injury or sudden death, or have experienced it themselves.</p><p>When someone dies suddenly within a farm family, it can feel like the entire world is upended. You’re grieving, your family is grieving, and yet the farm must continue. The emotional weight is compounded by the practical demands of daily life and business.</p><h3>Planning Ahead If Possible</h3><p>Ideally, conversations about the future of the farm should happen before a tragedy occurs. These discussions should include:</p><ul><li>The farm and land owner</li><li>Key people involved in day-to-day operations</li><li>Potential heirs or successors</li><li>Any other relevant stakeholders</li></ul><p>Once the situation is understood, it’s important to involve professionals such as:</p><ul><li>Succession planners</li><li>Agricultural solicitors</li><li>Financial or agri-business consultants</li></ul><p>Even if these conversations didn’t happen before your loved one passed, it’s never too late to be transparent with yourself and your family about what comes next.</p><h3>Immediate Practical Needs</h3><p>While long-term planning is essential, there are immediate concerns that need attention:</p><ul><li>Who will manage the day-to-day running of the farm?</li><li>When should you contact a solicitor?</li><li>What legal or financial steps need to be taken?</li></ul><p>It can be overwhelming to know where to begin—both emotionally and practically. Embrace FARM is here to help guide you through those first steps.</p><h3>Tailored Support for Every Situation</h3><p>The support you need will depend on your unique circumstances. A conversation with Embrace FARM can help clarify what’s best for your family and your farm’s future. We’ll connect you with experts who can assist with both practical and emotional needs.</p><p>Embrace FARM also offers a range of publications and resources on grief, loss, and practical support, available at: <a href="https://embracefarm.com/resources/">embracefarm.com/resources</a></p><p><i>Disclaimer: The information in this article is intended as a general guide only. While every care is taken to ensure accuracy of information contained in this article, Embrace FARM or its contributors do not accept responsibility for errors or omissions howsoever arising.</i></p>

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When Tragedy Strikes the Family Farm: What Happens Next?

<h3>Understanding Grief Through a Child’s Eyes</h3><p>Supporting a grieving child can feel overwhelming, especially when you consider how personal and individual grief is for each person. It may seem daunting to bring up feelings around loss, but Embrace FARM offers guidance on how to speak to your child about grief through the lens of farm life.</p><p>The death of a loved one can be a confusing, fearful, and worrying time for a child. Children learn about the world from those around them—parents, family, teachers, carers, and friends—and they turn to these trusted adults when faced with the unknown.</p><h3>How Children Grieve: Age, Personality, and Understanding</h3><p>Children grieve in different ways depending on their personality, age, stage of development, and how much they understand about death. Regardless of these factors, every child needs clear and honest information about what has happened—always delivered in an age-appropriate way.</p><p>Children may not appear sad all the time. They often become distracted by play, friends, and daily routines like going to school. This doesn’t mean they aren’t struggling; their grief may surface in quieter moments.</p><h3>Creating Space for Questions and Emotions</h3><p>After a death, it’s important to listen to your child’s thoughts and feelings and let them know it’s okay to ask questions. Answer honestly and clearly, using language they understand. These conversations help children feel included and give them space to explore their emotions.</p><p>It’s also essential to reassure them that they are not to blame. Children may worry that something they said or did caused the death, especially if there was a disagreement beforehand. Let them talk about their relationship with the person who died, whether it was close and loving or more complicated. Both types of relationships can have a significant emotional impact.</p><h3>Grief Over Time: Milestones and Memories</h3><p>As children grow, they may feel the loss more deeply. Milestones like birthdays, holidays, or transitions, such as moving from primary to secondary school, can bring renewed feelings of grief and longing.</p><h3>Sudden Death and Its Impact on Children</h3><p>When a death is sudden, there’s no chance to say goodbye. This can be shocking and traumatic for children, often leading to anger or acting out. These reactions are normal and may come and go. If your child is comfortable, include them in goodbye rituals—but never force it. Some children may find these experiences too overwhelming.</p><h3>No One-Size-Fits-All Approach</h3><p>There’s no universal way to support a grieving child. You’ll learn what works best as you go, trusting your instincts and leaning on bereavement support organisations like Embrace FARM, the Childhood Bereavement Network, Barnardos, or the Irish Hospice Foundation, depending on your circumstances.</p><h3>New Supports for Farm Families</h3><p>Embrace FARM has launched new supports for children and young adults from farm families. To explore what’s available for your child, visit: <a href="https://embracefarm.com/supportsforchildren/">embracefarm.com/supportsforchildren</a></p>

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Supporting Children After a Death in a Farm Family

<h3>Resilience in the Face of Tragedy</h3><p><br />One of the most striking outcomes when a farm family loses a loved one unexpectedly is the resilience and adaptability they show to survive the immense grief. This is evident both in how roles within the family shift and how the farm itself evolves to support the family’s new reality.</p><p>In many of the cases Embrace FARM has supported, it is a widow left behind after losing her husband or partner in a fatal farm tragedy. Often, there are children in the household, ranging from unborn babies to young adults. From the mother’s perspective, adapting how the family moves forward becomes a priority, and the farm business often adjusts to reflect this.</p><h3>Adapting the Farm to Support the Family</h3><p><br />Several factors influence how families adapt after a death: the age of the children, the type of farm enterprise, and the family’s financial situation. These considerations shape decisions that unfold across short, medium, and long-term timeframes.</p><p>For example:</p><ul><li>A young widow with small children on a productive dairy farm may switch to once-a-day milking to balance childcare and farm responsibilities</li><li>A widow with teenage or college-aged children may lease out the farm temporarily, allowing time for one of the children to decide whether to take on the business in the future</li></ul><h3>Protecting Children from Pressure</h3><p><br />In all these cases, what remains strongest is the resilience of the mother and her children. No decision is taken lightly, and there is no pressure placed on children to “take over” too early or “step into daddy’s shoes.” The focus is on healing, adapting, and making thoughtful choices that support the family’s wellbeing.</p><h3>Grief and Growth: A Shared Journey</h3><p><br />What remains steadfast is how the farm family and the farm business change fluidly with one another through grief. Growth can emerge from this journey. The path families take with Embrace FARM is a long-term commitment to emotional, mental, and practical support. We walk alongside families as they navigate life after a devastating loss.</p><h3>Support Is Available</h3><p><br />If you are part of a farm family and find yourself in the aftermath of a serious injury or sudden death, whether due to a farm accident or otherwise, Embrace FARM offers both practical and emotional support.</p><p><strong>Visit:</strong> <a href="https://embracefarm.com/how-we-can-help/">embracefarm.com/how-we-can-help</a></p><p><strong>Email:</strong> <a href="mailto:info@embracefarm.com">info@embracefarm.com</a></p><p><strong>Call:</strong> 057-8510555</p>

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From Grief to Advocacy: How Farm Families Are Creating Change

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